Rules,
structure, consequences, time-outs, restrictions - all are words that children
hate and many parents dread.For all
they are dreaded however, there is almost nothing - short of love - that
children need more.
From
the beginning, a child focuses on exploring the world, on getting to know what
is around them and pushing the edge of what is familiar.When they are babies setting safe boundaries
is pretty easy.We put the sides up on
the crib, place dangerous things out of reach, and dress them properly.As they grow we move things out of their
path, and we set limits on where they can go and what they can do without our
supervision.Boundaries provide safety
and security, even if they do not like them.
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There is an old saying that states we are all born to die. This is a very real fact and very few people will state that they are ready to die at any given point in life. In some aspects, people can also have a fear of dying that lends itself to a positive direction through choosing healthy life actions and avoiding conditions and habits that may cut life extent. But, when a person becomes scared of dying and death to the point that their horror becomes irrational, there's a good chance that this fear is actually a phobia.
The medical term for intense fear of death and dying isThe intense fear of death and dying is medically expressed necrophobia. The phrase Necrophobia is a general phrase that contains the fear of dying (you) and the fear of dead people or death. When a person display high degree of anxiety at the concept of dying or the concept of seeing a dead person, this fear can overwhelm them and cause a very real, physical outcome in the body.
The famous Swiss psychologist Carl
Jung spoke of the human shadow which can be loosely defined as those parts of
ourselves that we pretend are not there, that we hide from others, and that we
do not want anyone to know about.Like
our literal shadow, those inner secret parts follow us all the time.Sometimes we get hints that they are there,
but most of the time we do not see them.Being aware of our shadows can give us some power over them and allow us
to learn how they work against us.
Examples of shadows might be inner thoughts
such as “I am not attractive,”“I am not
worthy,” or “I do not need or want anyone close to me in my life.”If we are not aware of how they work, shadows
can lead us to undermine our best intentions.A shadow-based thought might sound like: “Since I believe I am not
worthy of being loved, I will give you a reason to reject me.I will unconsciously sabotage our
relationship because it hurts less if I do it myself.”
Above all, being assertive means respecting oneself. The capacity to initiate constructive and healthy interpersonal relationships based on a sense of mutual respect can only develop from a deep respect for oneself, for one?s individuality and one?s uniqueness. Our relationships with other people are often difficult, not very clearly defined and can also be a source of anxiety. This is nothing other than the result of misunderstandings caused by an inability to relate to others in an open and honest manner.
If we are not honest with ourselves, how can be expect to be sincere with other people? Assertiveness implies understanding our own individual way of being, accepting it and not being afraid of revealing it to the people around us. By hiding our true self we will only generate misunderstanding and a sense of malaise within interpersonal relationships.
Assertiveness is a skill we can acquire over time and a capacity that should be maintained. We should also avoid assuming extreme attitudes in one sense or the other. The capacity of being assertive in fact varies between two extremes, the first being that of total passivity,
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